What an amazing weekend….really this past week has been simply incredible. My new look is apparently working and getting me laid without having to rely on the internet. Friday, I met up with Facebook guy (#1) and his friend from San Diego. We are at Boy Bar and chilling out….I have been talking to this really cute guy for a while who is a flight attendant. We hadn’t met up, but I was coming back from the bathroom and there I saw him….I didn’t know he was going to be there. We were talking earlier in the night and his roomie was trying to get him to come out to The Castro.

It was amazing…I saw him and he saw me pretty much at the same time. His name was Michael…and we hit it off right away…We ran outside downstairs and Facebook guy (#1) was there…yikes…well we hadn’t made anything official so it was okay. He was going with his friend to Pink anyway, and it is $15 cover there, and I didn’t want to leave really. We said goodnight for the evening.

Michael and I went back upstairs and talked and made out the rest of the night. We went back to my car and had every intention of going back to his place, but started going at each other in the car right there…It was a lot of fun, and we talk every day when he is out of the area flying around. I can’t wait to hang out with him again.

I went to bed with a huge smile on my face….Michael and I totally clicked and it was awesome to finally meet him.

Saturday was pretty boring…I went out to The Mix but ended up calling it an early night.

Sunday…well Sunday. I went out to lunch with Facbook guy (#2 aka Dustin). He is a musician and has a great thin frame. We had lunch in The Castro then went back to his place….we talked earlier about taking things slowly on the first date. We watched some tv and he turned the futon from couch to bed and we got down to our boxers and took a nap and rubbed each others bodies.

After the relaxing nap with him, I got a text from a guy I had been talking to off and on from A4A. He lives right next to The Bar on Castro, so I went over there and he fucked me.

I went downstairs to The Bar afterwords for a few drinks…planning on making it another early night. When out of the corner of my eye I spot this insanely hot guy. He was 22, about 5′10″ well built (semi-muscular), AMAZING ASS, etc. He was with a few guys but we locked eyes a few times. I saw the guys he was with leave, and was sad to see him go. I had another beer then went to 440 for some cheaper beers. Along the way, I saw him chilling out the sidewalk. We locked eyes as I was going into 440 and shortly after he was in there and brushed me as he walked by.

I finally saw him alone, so went up to talk to him (let’s call him X). We got to know each other a little bit. He kept telling me that I was so hot, and I kept saying that no he was so hot. I began to suck on his ear lobe a bit…and he whispers that if I don’t stop that he might just have to fuck me. oOo. Things heat up and we are stroking each others cock with our hands down each others pants right there in the bar.

Then he goes off and starts talking to the guys he was with…and this other guy comes up (a bit taller and heavyset) and starts hugging on him, etc. X comes back and is hanging all over me for a while, then goes and talks to his friends. The other guy comes up to me and is like, “did you just meet him here?” I say, ” what is it to you?” He tells me that X is going home with him, blah blah blah.

I tell X this when he comes back to me and he explains that the guy who said that is just some jackass, but he is there with his boyfriend (who is prob in his 40’s), and it is complicated. So, I go and start to work up the boyfriend, because honestly I wanted to get with X so badly as this point. X’s boyfriend and I hit it off, and we all decide shortly after to go for some pizza then go home. They keep asking me if I am going home with them… I am like sure.

We head towards their house, which I later learn is in Redwood City…a good long drive from The Castro. We get home and go to the bedroom. The boyfriend is in bed with us, but not really doing much to me…more just touching X, etc. A little strange but it didn’t matter X was so hot nekkid.

He apparently doesn’t get to top ….EVER…with his boyfriend….so he was quite excited as throughout the night I was telling him that he could fuck me….We go out at and it is quite passionate. He fucked me for a while, then I fucked him ….and let me say that when I said he had an amazing ass…I REALLY meant it….omg. We both finished with him fucking me on my back, and shooting his load on my face and stomach at the same time as I shot….it was intense and passionate.

We both ran off and took a shower, and fell asleep for the night. Well that is until the 5 or 6 times I woke up in the middle of the night and started jerking him. Finally in the morning we went at it again, this time for less time, as I had to leave, and while his boyfriend was in the shower. I was about 30 minutes late to work today, but oh man it was so worth it.

Oh…and yes to MrGayPortland28 I did use protection with each and every guy I was with this weekend.

I am not sure if that is the right term that I should use to title this post, but hey I’m feeling pretty damn good right about now. Over the past 2 days I have met up with 2 guys who I met when I first moved to the area and didn’t have the best experiences with.

The first guy, Preston he and I talked for a while when I first moved here and were so excited about meeting. We met at his place and planned to spend the night there. We did, we made out and I ended up blowing him once that night, and again in the morning…but after that we didn’t talk.

The second guy is a pretty big muscular guy who has a HUGE 8″ VERY THICK cock and was a total top. When I went to his place a long time ago we talked for a few minutes but he was like, sorry dude just not into it.

Well over the past 2 days these two guys contacted me on one of the online m4m sites that I am on, and we started talking. I recognized Preston, but not this other guy (at first…I sort of remembered him later on). Preston and I now are about the same body type, but back when we first met I was heavier, etc.

Well Preston asks me to come over to his place 2 days ago….I do and he sort of remembers me, but not completely. I kept saying, yeah you look familiar too, but didn’t let on that we had met before. We talked for a while then started making out. We ended up fucking and it was amazing. I really felt comfortable with him and even took off my shirt which I almost never do. We ordered in and watched some tv then went at it again after dinner. Had an amazing time with him and he and I have been talking ever since. We were talking about hanging out yesterday, but I didn’t get his message to hang out till it was too late….oh well.

Well, I did have someone to hang out with last night….2 someones. The first was the muscle guy with the huge cock. We talked online for a bit, he invited me over…I came over and we started going at it. Again, this guy didn’t recognize me, but with my new look it felt good to get his approval…and his amazing well u get it. He pounded me for quite sometime and it felt a lot better then I thought it would considering his pretty big size. We finished up and I took off to go meet my Facebook guy.

The Facebook guy and I started talking yesterday ironically, and I don’t remember where I saw him but I friend requested him and he accepted. We started emailing thru FB and decided we wanted to hang out for some beers, etc. I headed out to where he lives and we went to a local dive bar for a few drinks. Walked down the road a bit and had some tacos and a full pitcher of margaritas which we barely finished 1/2 of. It was some really good conversation and I had a blast hanging out with him. I drove him back to his place a few blocks away and we went inside for a bit. We kissed a little bit. He has a friend coming in from San Diego tonight, and the three of us are going to hang out in the Castro tonight…then crash at his friends hotel room in Union Square.

So…that is my story of redemption or something along those lines….I have to say I am totally enjoying looking better and more attractive and having fun with some cute guys. I don’t know what will happen with Facebook guy tonight, but who knows…he just got out of a long relationship and I don’t want to rush anything.

I have to tell you I am on cloud 9 right now after such an incredible evening last night. I recently have gone through some drastic changes in my appearance (weight loss, hair style change, wardrobe, etc) and I’m feeling better about myself then I have in years. I still have a ways to go, but don’t we all….

Last night I went back to Club Seven, which I haven’t been to in the past 3 weeks or so. Mick, my friend (Billy’s ex) who first started getting me to go wasn’t going to make it, but I knew some of his friends from the club. I sat at the bar like I normally do, drinking my beer, when his friends come up and are in total shock over how I look. Daniel, this tall blonde gay guy who I have had my eye on since I first started going there, and his lesbian friend were the two I ended up spending most of the night with.

I began to have a few beers and we talked quite a bit…the club wasn’t as busy as the last time I was there, but by later in the evening there were more people showing up. Somehow, and don’t ask me how this happened since I haven’t danced in YEARS, Daniel and I started dancing on the dance floor….I held my own and was having a great time.

There was a lot of drama with Daniel’s friend with an ex who was there and that was getting old after a while. I stayed out of it all….I’m not a fan of drama at all…And then I had my own personal drama…

Well let me start by saying there is a 3rd guy to this story which I will get to in a bit.

Daniel and I are dancing and this other guy, who seems very fem and is there with the same “crew” every week starts eyeing me and motioning me to come over. I was busy dancing so I sort of gave the “in a few minutes” signal….A little while later, I went into the bathroom to use the bathroom and he was in there. He starts talking shit about Daniel and is saying if I want to dance with a real man, etc. He gets pretty close to me and is very close to kissing me. Now he was okay looking, but not my type really. He had flat ironed hair that was two-toned (blond and black)…I managed to get out of kissing him as Daniel came into the bathroom.

He (Daniel likes to call him the Peacock) leaves and I finish up and Daniel and I walk out together. We go back on the dance floor and The Peacock is pulling me towards him, while Daniel is pulling me towards him. They were both literally pulling my arms straight out on the dance floor trying to get me to go with them. Daniel won out, and the other guy stormed off and left the club with his “posse.”

Now the 3rd guy…another time when I was leaving the bathroom, this really cute more muscular guy and I locked eyes and we kept looking at each other the rest of the night. He was there with 2 other guys, of which one seemed to be close with him. As the music was dying down and they were kicking people out he winked at me, and I wasn’t sure what to do. I grabbed a cocktail napkin and pen and wrote down my number. I tried to be all slick and put it in his back pocket of his jeans on the way out, but that didn’t work out so well.

His friend (who I later found out was his boyfriend) was like, “What the hell do you think you are doing?” I was already a little bit ahead of them by then and he had grabbed the paper from me. I thought, well I might see him next week who knows….

Daniel, his friend, and another girl decide to head to Denny’s afterwords, which apparently they do regularly, and I was invited along. Daniel and I as we were leaving the club hugged and had one kiss. We went to a late late 2am dinner at Denny’s and there was more drama with Daniel’s friend and two of her ex’s now.

Daniel and I watched some porn on my iPhone, and had a good time hanging out. We hugged at the end of the night and said we would see each other next week.

On my drive home at 3:30am, I get a phone call from a number I don’t know….I am like WTF it is 3:30am who is calling me? I hadn’t given Daniel my number…it was the other guy who I had been eying all night. Apparently his boyfriend threw the number on the ground outside, but he went back (at around 3:15am) and got it. We talked for a few minutes, but I was so tired and still a bit buzzed, so we decided we would talk more today.

It was an amazing night…never in my life have I had anything like that happen. I have never been fought over between two guys, let alone had another guy from across the bar eying me all night. It certainly will go down as one of my more memorial trips to a club….I can’t wait till next Monday.

BTW The funniest part is that all these guys I talked to, and there were a few more, had no idea I had ever been to the club before. I have been about 5 times, but I guess my appearance has changed so much that it’s like I’m a whole new person.

This past weekend was certainly a great one. It was sunny and beautiful in the San Francisco area. You couldn’t ask for better weekend weather. I hit up the gym a few times and did some working out….stopped by a friends house to chill out for a while….went to a coffee shop and hung out at The Bar….all in all it was a great weekend if that was ALL that I did, but there is quite a bit more…

On Saturday, I head over to The Bar on Castro after running around all day…I notice they are having some sort of “beer specials” and since that is primarily what I drink, I figured I would partake. They had Pabst Blue Ribbon (PBR) for 50 cents, Slim Jims for a quarter, unlimited peanuts (and even let you shell them on the floor), a quarters tournament, and people playing cards. It was like “beer game night” in the afternooon till 8 and it was a cool vibe in the typically crowded bar. I sat at the bar, per usual, and had a few cheapie beers (yes PBR are nasty, but at 50 cents each who am I to complain).

I heard the guy next to me say to the bartender he was from my home state, and decided to ask where specifically….He wasn’t from a city nearby, but we got to talking for a while. He was a very sexy 26 year old web and software wide-eyed developer with thoughts of moving out to the city and starting up his company here. He was from quite a small almost hick-ish town, so being tech savvy San Francisco was the place to be. He was staying with his sister for about 2 weeks now and is leaving for home on Tuesday

It was odd because there were the typical moments of silence where I fail at creating relative small talk, but he picked right up and brought up something else which we would talk about. He smoked (yuck), but we went out to the patio so he would smoke, and that is where we started making out. We went back inside for a while, and made out more right there at the bar…the bartender was like, “Did you guys just meet here?” I sheepishly replied yes. We were getting hungry so we decided to grab something to eat, but not before he modeled some sexy underwear for me at Ingenious.

Dinner was at a local sushi shop, and then we went back to his sisters place (which was out in Sunset….long drive) and he grabbed his weed. In the time he was here, he was able to pick up a marajuana card, and while I don’t smoke, I don’t mind if others want to. His sister was home, so we couldn’t play there, and my place was unavailable at the time….so we went to the first nearby place I could think of, Blow Buddies.

Here’s were the night becomes tricky….we go to Blow Buddies and on the way I am rubbing his cock, and we are making out at every stop light….he never gets hard. We go into Blow Buddies and go upstairs and he starts blowing me thru the glory hole. We go outside so he can smoke, then go into the maze outside and he finishes me off. He then apologizes and says he doesn’t think he can get hard as he was too drunk (and he was pretty drunk)….He had said earlier in the evening that he was only about 5 1/2″ anyway.

We start to head home, and he mentions that he has a girlfriend back home…Oh boy….then he (in this drunken bit of honesty) tells me that they were engaged but only b/c she was pregnant but miscarried. He apparently also told her that he was more into guys, and that their engagement was only for appearances, since he was from a small town and all….sigh.

Well I dropped him off at home and headed back home myself. It was a great evening till I had to start learning/worrying about all the drama that this hottie (and he was at least an 8.5/10) was telling me about. He texted me the next day, but I didn’t feel like hanging out again.

I did make it to The Bar on Sunday and it was packed. I went home and got on A4A and had sex with some cute bottom boy in NOMA….just what I needed after a weekend of drinking.

So, that was my weekend…what did you do this weekend?

Before I moved to San Francisco I would be on some of the guy hunting sites that I have mentioned on the site here before. Before I was here, the sites were good enough for finding guys and seemed populated enough, but once you check out the sites in San Francisco the 10 pages of guys on a site like Adam4Adam (aka A4A) seems like nothing.

Below is a screen grab of right now, 10:00am PST of how many pages of people are on A4A in the San Francisco area….52 pages (12 per page) works out to around 624 online at 10 AM. Last night, I hopped on A4A as I haven’t been on there in a while….started chatting with a few guys via email. Checking out some hot guys pics, etc.

BTW I just wanted to also mention, that unlike Manhunt, et al Adam4Adam is free. There is no fees involved, you just have to look at gay porn ads on the sidebar, which can be a bit funny while online at a Starbucks (unless you go to the Starbucks in The Castro, then you won’t be the only one on there).

I was talking to two cute 20 year old bois (one a bottom one a top) and ended up settling on the top, as I was not in the mood to drive all the way out to where the bottom was. Here’s the thing…and I really hate this about A LOT of the guys out here…they can’t play at their place. This guy had room mates he didn’t want to know (are all tops closeted?), and suggested having sex outside.

I was like umm no thank you, but then I was really horny, so I thought about it. I had just cleaned my car out, and it wouldn’t be the first time that I’ve had sex in the backseat of my car. I suggest that we can do it there, and he was all over that. I drive by where he lives, pick him up and we park somewhere quiet dark.

A little while later after some uncomfortable and cramped quarters we both ended up getting off and he was cute enough with a nice …well…

So, that being said, if you are looking for some fun in San Francisco, be it while on vacation from out of town, or you live here, Adam4Adam is a great site to check out, it’s free…and I will be sure to be on there more. Maybe we’ll even hook up….I’ll be somewhere ni the filter between 20 and 25