If you have been following me, you know that while I might have sex quite often with a variety of different guys (what gay guy doesn’t) I also am a proponent of playing safe every time. I follow this, and every time I have sex protection is used.

Turns out that isn’t always going to protect you 100% of the time. Sometimes things can be transmitted by touch…as I learned.

A little over a week or so ago, I went to get tested as I regularly do (as you should do). I felt like I would have clean bill of health, but even so it is always best to checkup every 3-6 months (if not more often if you can). They have rapid results for some of the tests, including HIV. My HIV results were negative as were all of my other rapid tests.

The other set of tests is determined by a urine sample, anal swab, and blood sample. The clinic I went to, and HIGHLY recommend to anyone in the San Francisco area, Magnet is a great facility and the people there were really informative and professional. When you leave, they tell you they won’t be calling you unless there is a positive test result.

Much to my shock, I got a call from a number that wasn’t in my phone….it was Magnet. I was at work and tried to be discrete about the call once they called. I got so scared and thought maybe they were just calling to say nothing was wrong……..

Well I was wrong…my worst fear was presenting itself to me. The told me what I had and that I should come in ASAP to get medication. They offer the medication for free, and I go right after work and pick it up. I talked to the counselor who explained how it can happen, and that I was fortunate that I didn’t have any symptoms.

I was diagnosed with chlamydia in my anus, which apparently can be spread by contact with an infected partner with their sexual organ. Turns out the fooling around before you throw on that condom where they are rubbing their cock against your hole can lead to the spread of STD’s….I am going to be sure to be extra careful from now on.

They gave me a set of 14 pills (doxycycline hyclate) to be taken 2x per day with food. Here is where I was scared…was this permanent? Would I be stuck with this my entire life? If it was just in my anus would I be forced to top all the time?

The counselor at Magnet was great in answering all of these questions. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and others are consider the “common colds” of sexually active people. They are very easily cured and treatment is simple. You don’t always know you have it, and it is gone once you are finished with treatment.

Now you can get it again, so you do have to be sure to get tested regularly, and if you experience the symptoms, they can be quite painful and disgusting (I’ve been told and seen pics online researching this).

So, that is where I’ve been the past week. Tomorrow is my last day of treatment. I was put on as I like to call it “no bed” rest for a week…I haven’t been on Craigslist, A4A, Manhunt, or any other site in the past week. It has been good for me since I’m staying at the gym longer and catching up on sleep….but it also SUCKS!

Also, if you find out you have contracted an STD, you should contact any partners you have had since your last checkup; it is the responsible thing to do. Granted this is embarrassing, but you could also prevent the spreading of it to others that your ex partners come in contact with.

That being said….I will end the post as I titled it….Play safe, and get tested.

I know I posted before about Josh, but last night we hung out. He isn’t doing so well….he recently found out he has lymphoma cancer, his friend comitted suicide, and the gay couple he was staying with has pretty much kicked him out all within the past month. A lot to take in…over the past few nights we have been texting back and forth. He is apparently staying at a friends place right now, but she was out of town and couldn’t stay there last night, so I invited him over last night.

We had dinner and went back to my place. He was exhausted and we went to bed after talking for a little while. Because Josh is positive, I am very cautious if we play together….last night we didn’t (well we did jerk each other off at 4am when we both woke up).

I feel really bad for him though…he has been through a lot. Hopefully things will improve for him. I’m a bit sad today thinking about it.

BTW I have an update on Billy I might post later on as well…

I’ve been going to the gym quite a bit recently…nearly every day of the week, and feeling better and better about how I look everyday.  Yesterday I am about to head home and I get this email from this smoking hot guy with a huge cock. We exchange emails for a bit, and I tell him I am about to go to the gym, but he can come over afterwards. He asks what gym, and turns out we both have a membership to the same one…go figure.

We decide to go to the gym together….after he comes over to my place. Now he apparently works on a farm, so when he got here he wanted to take a shower. I had just taken one, otherwise I might of jumped in with him.

He comes out of the shower in just a towel, and we start making out. The towel drops to the floor and out comes a monster of a cock. He was certainly a show-er! This thing had to be at least 7 inches soft, and only got bigger as I worked on his cock with my mouth.

Now before he came over, I mentioned that I liked to bottom, and I did see his picture, but I didn’t anticipate the monster that he was packing.  He was gentle and began blowing me and got his fingers wet and began to play with my hole. Here’s a tip to any guy who is planning on bottoming, try to get some stimulation to the outside and on the inside by the other guy, or yourself if you have to before you just go at it….it makes the experience easier. 

By the time he grabbed the condom from the side of the bed and lube, I wasn’t as nervous, but I was still a bit on edge. This 9-10 inch thick cock was about to be inside of me. He was SOOO gentle, and started very slowly, working it in bit by bit till I was comfortable. I’ve also found that if you start off rough there is a bit of pain involved and it continues throughout the session. Working it in slowly allowing your muscles to adjust seems to help out.

By the time we were going at it, I was feeling no pain and only pleasure. We changed positions so many times, and it was amazing. He came inside of me (condom on of course, but I generally don’t like for a guy to do it with or without a condom just to be extra safe), and I came a few seconds later.

It was an amazing workout, and the workout hadn’t even begun. We cleaned up, and went over to the gym and had a great workout at the gym. He met a friend there and they were going out, otherwise I might of had him back for seconds.

Anyway, it was a great way to spend Friday night, and yes that is him in the picture. His tats were really sort of cool, and I am not into tats that much.